Can I change this? If so, how?

Something not working the way you'd like? Rather than focus on what's NOT working, get clear on what change IS possible. Sometimes, things won't change no matter what you do. If you'd like clarity about what will change and what won't ask “What's possible? Can I change this? If so, how?” These questions will help you see ways you might walk around, walk away, dig under, or fly over the brick wall, rather than bang your head against it. The brick wall is not wrong and has no evil intent to hurt you. It is simply a brick wall that is happy to stay that way. So get clear on the brick walls in your life and find another way around or away. Your head will thank you for it.