How much time do you spend second guessing whether you'll fail at something or not? Do you say “I'd like to do it, but I probably won't be any good” or “I'll give it a go, but I'm sure I won't do very well”? Some of this may be because you think you shouldn't big-note yourself. How much of it do you end up believing? There is nothing wrong with this point of view. Be aware, that your point of view creates your reality. So if you think you'll be no good, then you're absolutely correct. If you'd like to create a different reality – an expansive, can-do reality full of possibility, then start with a different point of view. Start by asking “What if success were the only option?” What is the definition of success? That's up to you. How have you defined success? What if by being clear on what you'd truly like as your life and living, then success IS the only option?
With thanks to Kathy for the question.
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