What do people around you talk about? Do they gossip and talk endlessly about the next installment of the trauma and drama in their or other people's lives? Do they usually focus on who did what bad thing to someone else? Do you enjoy it and join in? Does it make you feel uncomfortable or get you down? Or are you simply puzzled why people spend their time talking about things like this? If you're not enjoying the conversations around you ask “What do I enjoy talking about?” and notice what comes to mind. If you realize that what you enjoy doesn't match what people around you are talking about, simply acknowledge it with “interesting I don't enjoy this.” If you can't remove yourself from conversation, a smile, a nod and interesting point of view energy will take you out of resist and react. What if by not engaging in the talk, you changed the conversation? And you can always ask “What will it take for more fun people to come and play?” and find people who are more in your zone.
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