THE DAILY Q
  • Library
  • Why questions?
  • Q Shop
  • What others say
  • About Us
  • Contact Us
  • 한국어

What can I do to make up for the damage I've done?

1/19/2013

0 Comments

 
Is someone giving you hell? No matter what you do or say, you're always wrong? Perhaps you really did do something less than bright, and they're coming down on you hard? How do you respond? Do you try to justify your actions and prove that you're not wrong and are doing your best? Does that work? Even if you really did nothing wrong, do people believe you and make your life easy? Not usually. If you'd like to vacuum up all the bad feelings and start again, do this. First acknowledge the other person's point of view. Say “You're right, I'm wrong” three times. Then ask “What can I do to make up for the damage I've done?” Check your energy matches the words. Sarcastic or angry energy won't work. The magic is in the energy of allowance and vulnerability. When you are willing to give up your points of view about being right, then you are free to create new possibilities. 
0 Comments

Your comment will be posted after it is approved.


Leave a Reply.

    First visit?

    There are 100s of questions here. Search for the topic of your choice, or start here at the beginning of this blog and work your way through.
    Sign up and we'll send you a question every day to crinkle your universe, make your smile, and help keep you in the zone. ​​Why questions? A question will always empower you to see and create more. An answer will only limit you to what you have decided is right. ​
    This is a 100% free service and our gift to you. If you would like to contribute to our work, we are most grateful. 

    Archives

    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012
    August 2012
    July 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012

    Categories

    All
    10 Keys To Total Freedom
    Addiction & Recovery
    Animals & Pets
    Being You
    Body & Health
    Daily Mantra
    Distractors
    Environment & Planet
    Holiday Games
    Interesting Point Of View
    Life & Living
    Live In The Question
    Magic Words
    Money & Business
    My Favourite Qs
    Parenting & Kds
    Sex & Relationships
    Words To Leave Behind

Copyright © 2010-20 Mary-Jane Liddicoat ABN 256 1586 4078
  • Library
  • Why questions?
  • Q Shop
  • What others say
  • About Us
  • Contact Us
  • 한국어