Got problems? Do you like them? Does it give you something to chat about with your friends, a puzzle to solve? What if you didn't have problems? Would else could you enjoy using the time and energy you now pour into problem solving? If you'd like to find out, ask “What have I decided is a problem, which if I looked at it differently is something to be thankful for?” For example, rather than being upset that your boss is not hands on and doesn't want to hear about or get involved in your projects, be grateful you have the freedom to run them the way you like. When you find yourself complaining about something weighing you down, rather than trying to fix the problem (make it an even better problem?), you transformed it into something else?
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Have you ever noticed that you're a little too smart or too fast for most people? What you get in a heartbeat, others can take minutes or even years to get, if ever? Does it frustrate you when people you hire don't get what you employed them to do? Sometimes it's most effective to be Cute, Not Bright, even though you're not. Instead of fighting to be heard or understood, play blond and ask “I'm sorry. I'm confused. I thought A, B, C and here is X Y Z. What do you know? Can you help me understand?" Practice saying this authentically with a pure, innocent blond energy; it won't work using your natural more-powerful-than-a-locomotive vibe. Keep asking Dumb and Confused questions to gently lead the other person to tell you what you already know, but which they would never admit if you challenged them. The aim of this is not to prove you're right and they're wrong. This is a tool to help you get the result you desire, with the greatest ease.
Are the things you'd truly like not showing up in your life? Even though you are {select any and all that apply) smart, educated, articulate, hard working, diligent, polite, kind, good looking, well connected, in the zone, [enter your own talents here _________], and generally have everything going for you? Do you have any of these points of view: I can/should do everything myself; I can/should be self sufficient/self-made; handouts are wrong; I know best; everyone else is stupid; I can't rely on anyone else? Even if it is true you can do everything yourself, better than anyone, if you have this points of view, you will not be able to receive contribution from anyone or anything. The universe is continually gifting us amazing things. Oxygen, water, food, houses with great sea views were all originally free. If your point of view is “I don't need it,” then you will be offered less and less, until you finally limit yourself to you. So if you'd like something greater, ask “What am I unwilling to receive?”
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