OK, granted, this is not a question. And yet it is a magical phrase to unstick the stickiness of any situation. What do you get when you fight something? Yup, a fight. If you like to fight, then stick to your position. If you'd like to move beyond the fight to a new possibility, say this three times and see what happens. You are not agreeing they are right and you are wrong. You are acknowledging their right to their point of view and that they may not be ready/willing/able to see yours. By saying this you create a space for something other than a lock down fight to show up. But don't use it if you love a lock down fight...
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Not happy? Got problems? Do you sometimes create problems because that's what everyone else has, and if you didn't have them you wouldn't be normal, couldn't fit in, or have something to talk about? Misery does love company. What if being happy were an ok thing to be? So next time you have a 'problem' ask this question and see what shows up for you.
This is a great way to make sure everything you buy is a contribution to your life. Before you buy, ask this of the item you're looking to spend your money on. Sure a banana, or shoes, or a book may not directly bring a cash return. But what they contribute to you in energy, style, information etc may. How do you know if it will? ASK!
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