When you get stuck or would like to change anything in your life, start at the top of this list and work down until you find the tool that works for you in that situation. Like to know more about each tool? Follow the blue links and click away!
1. Ask “Would an infinite being truly choose this?”
2. Everything is just an interesting point of view
3. Live in 10 second increments
4. Live in the question (instead of the answer)
5. No form, no structure, no significance
6. No judgement, no discrimination, no discernment
7. No drugs of any kind
8. No competition
9. Do not listen to, tell or buy the story
10. No exclusion
How often do you feel swept away by the stream of people's trauma and drama? Dragged over the rapids and smashed against the rocks? Or perhaps you're a salmon diligently struggling against the flow? What if instead you were a rock in the stream, allowing the water to pass one way and the salmon to pass the other? What if you could see it all, without being the effect of it, so you can choose what works for you? This is allowance and questions will get you there. Like to be the rock? Be the question.
What have you decided you do not want in your life? People who lie, cheat and steal? Unreliable and flakey people? Bossy and know-it-all people? What else? How much energy do you spend judging people in an effort to keep certain things out of your life? Does it ever work? Is it fun for you? Does it expand your life in ways you'd like? If not, rather than judging and excluding, be in allowance and inclusive. When you exclude, you defne the limits of what you are willing to receive and shut off your access to infnite possibilities. So when you notice you're trying to avoid someone, ask “What am I excluding here, that if I were to be in allowance of would contribute to my life in ways I can't yet imagine?” Will this put you at the mercy people? No. When you are aware and inclusive you will see what's going on and how to choose the bits that work for you. As a result, they may exclude you from their lives, because you're no longer fun for them.
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