Here are some more not-technically-a-question magic words. Use them to disappear everything from the drag down, knock out fights to the niggly differences of opinions. You're not saying they're right or wrong. You're acknowledging their right to have their own (perhaps insane) point of view, that you have yours too, and let's get on with the fun of life. Say it with joy & energy and then distract 'WOW, that's a REALLY interesting point of view....what would be fun for us to do now?''...little kids are SO easy to distract...