Do you have a target? Great! It's always good to have something to aim at and shoot over. Aim for the moon so you can hit the stars, as they say. What about goals? Got any of these: when I make a million dollars I'll be set; when I get meet The One I'll be happy; when I'm promoted my parents will see me; what else? Do you ever seem to achieve your goal? Or do you often find you get within reach, but never quite there? Do you ask questions like “What will it take for me to achieve X?” and then it doesn't happen? What is that? Perhaps you've made a goal your answer? Are you asking real questions, or have you decided what you want and stick a question mark at the end? If you find yourself always almost creating what you think you'd like, ask “What have I made significant?” and let it go. Whatever it is -- a person, an event, a number, a job – remove that specific and ask another question.
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Do you sometimes feel like you have no options? For example, you have NO CHOICE but to look after your elderly parents, make your kids do homework, stay late at the office, cancel your holiday, pay for dinner, host the family at Christmas, get married, get a job, buy a house, have kids...[enter your own disgruntlement here]. There is nothing intrinsically wrong with any of these things. It's simply your point of view if you don't like something. If your point of view is that you don't like it and you'd prefer something else, instead of defaulting to the No Choice version of life, ask “Who or what is limiting my choices?” Once you become clear about whether it's you, or someone or something else limiting your choices, you can more questions to create what you'd really like, for example “What else is possible?” or “What will it take for X to show up?” This is a free-will universe, remember? There is always choice. What if you stopped being your greatest limitation?
Do you find sometimes, no matter how kind your heart, good your intentions, qualified your expertise, or extensive your experience, some people, animals and situations simply won't let you in? They can't, won't or don't want to hear, not even if you ask a question and sit listening patiently? What if there were another way? What if you could still be an amazing contribution, with your mouth completely shut? Animals show us that communication is so much more than the blah blah coming out of our mouths. Birds fly in formation, interchanging lead to give each other a break. Elephants run for the hills well before a tsunami hits. And bees, yes we all know the amazing bees. So next time you think you'd like to help, before you open your mouth ask “What energy could I contribute here?” What if contributing the energy of space and allowance were greater than anything that came out of your mouth?
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